Your child?s needs
Behaviour Disorders
Are you concerned because your child or adolescent:
?harms or threatens themselves, others or pets/animals?
?consistently seems defiant, oppositional, spiteful or argumentative?
?seeks out revenge on others or feels blamed by others?
?damages or destroys property?
?lies, steals or skips school?
?smokes, uses drugs or alcohol?
?engages in early or promiscuous sexual activity?
?frequently argues or throws tantrums?
?is hostile towards authority figures, rude or uncoooperative?
What to expect
Difficult behaviour can be the result of any number of influences, and a behaviour disorder is often caused by more than one factor. Behaviour disorders can be categorized into two main types: conduct disorders and oppositional defiant disorders. Conduct disorders can be characterized by a disrespect for authority, little regard for the basic rights of others, defiance of major societal rules, physical or verbal aggression, intimidation and/or truancy. Signs of an oppositional defiant disorder may include argumentativeness, a tendency to blame others, frequent tantrums, a propensity to anger easily, and/or bullying.
To uncover the motivation behind your child?s conduct, we?ll start with an assessment for treatment that will include an evaluation of their behavior, emotions, attitudes, and self-esteem. This would be done using specialized questionnaires and interviews, following which an individualized treatment plan can be developed.
Once we better understand the motivators behind your child?s behaviour, we can begin working towards a solution which may include individual and/or family therapy. Therapy sessions are emotionally supportive, solution-focussed dialogues with cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) as their foundation. Often the most effective treatment for behaviour disorders requires the involvement of both parents and children/adolescents. Our goals will be to replace the problem behaviours with more pro-social behavoiur, to implement natural consequences for poor behaviour, and to provide opportunities to practice new behaviours. We will also work on learning new methods of respectful communication, improving family patterns of interaction, relationship building, limit setting, and establishing effective parenting strategies.
Contact the Oak Centre
THE OAK CENTRE
Briarwood Business Park
Oakville, ON L6H 5R2
tel: 905.844.7117
email: admin@theoakcentre.ca
fax: 905.844.3396